The Magic Chair: Search for Santa

Wednesday, 2 November 2016

It may only be November, but some of us, me included, have been thinking about Christmas for a while! 

When choosing presents for people, I like to really make an effort, and can spend ages hunting down the right thing and make it personal to them.  For example, it usually means something childish and Toy Story related for my 27 year old little brother!!

Now we really love books in our house, so to combine something personal with a book is brilliant.

The Magic Chair has a new personalised book called The Magic Chair: Search for Santa, which we were asked to review.

From the start, I was really impressed. The website is really easy to navigate and allows you to not only personalise the name of the main character (not Santa!), but also the features. 

The book arrived in less than a week and was beautifully wrapped...

... and looked even better than it did on the website! 

As soon as it arrived, Dot and I snuggled down and read it through, three times! She loved pointing out "Dorothy" on every page as well as trying to find Santa. 

Both the illustrations and rhyming story are truly lovely. The Magic Chair: Search for Santat is my new favourite Christmas book and it is definitely something that we will read not only on the run up to Christmas, but also every year. I've already promised to read it to Dot again tomorrow!

The Magic Chair: Search for Santa is a really lovely book and is a perfect gift and keepsake for any little one :)

The Magic Chair can be found at, on Facebook  and Twitter 

We were given a free copy of The Magic Chair: Search for Santa in return for our honest opinion. All opinions, as always, are our own. 

Moving to a Toddler Bed

Wednesday, 19 October 2016

So the past few days have been crazy at our house. Dot's bedroom has transformed from a baby room to a big girl's room.

It all begin at the weekend, with Dot climbing out of her cot. I know most toddlers do it, but it was a shock to us as she hadn't done it for months. We were all settled down for the evening and suddenly  heard someone walking around upstairs. Upon investigation, there was Dot smiling happily from the stair gate in her doorway!

I put her back in, settled her down and decided to sit at the top of the stairs to see if she did it again. Over the five minutes that followed, I lost count of how many times she climbed out and back in again!

We decided that it was much safer for her if we made her cot into a toddler bed, so guess what I was doing on Monday morning? Yep, there I was first thing in the morning with Dot, transforming her bed.

Yes, it would have been a lot easier without Dot's help, but I am too impatient so I couldn't wait for Mark but more importantly, where would be the fun?!

After a few hours, her bed had been converted, her room had been stripped and her chest of drawers had locks on, otherwise she'd have a floordrobe!

I wasn't sure she'd like it, but I was wrong! She loved playing on her bed and in her room. We spent over two hours playing in there!

Dot happily slept in it at nap time, but the evening was an adventure! She loved the freedom of getting up and running about and it was nearly 10pm when she finally gave in. It's been a long time since Dot kept us up late, so we really felt it.

Last night was much better though. Yes, it's still a novelty to her, but Dot fell asleep at quarter past 8, so a vast improvement!

Update: It's now been the better part of a week and Dot has slept really well :) One evening, she even asked to go to bed!

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Days Out with Aldi Mamia

Sunday, 9 October 2016

As a mum, it can be hard to make sure that our little ones are eating healthily, especially when we're on the go.

That's changed though. Dot has been luckily enough to try some of Aldi Mamia's award-winning 100% organic baby food range. Although Dot isn't a baby anymore, (in fact she turns two soon), the range is wide enough to have food suitable for toddlers too :)

Developed in response to the needs of real mums and dads, with the ongoing support of the Mamia Parent Panel, Aldi Mamia's baby food range is 100% organic and with prices from 59p it not only reinforces Aldi's commitment to brand-like quality at low prices, but is also perfect for mums on a budget!

Aldi Mamia was also recently awarded the Loved by Parents top Platinum award for the best organic baby food range!

As Dot is a but older, we didn't try the pouches, but we did try the Junior Mini Rice Cakes in two different flavours on a recent afternoon out to our local country park.

Dot's first conker!

After a busy time of collecting conkers, leaves and helicopters, we stopped for a rest and a snack :)

We let Dot try a couple of each rice cake to see what she thought. We were very surprised, but happily! Dot doesn't normally like rice cakes, but we had to almost tear the bags away from her. She loved them!

Although Dot didn't try the whole range, I'm really impressed with it. It's all organic and has no added sugars or preservatives. As a mum, I feel bad for giving Dot any pre packed snacks, but with Aldi Mamia's wide range of food, I don't have to!

 I have to admit, we have never shopped at Aldi before as there isn't one in our town, but I can see myself driving a little further afield to check it out and maybe get Dot some more Junior mini rice cakes!

On a side note, we gifted the baby pouches and Purees to my baby neice and have it on good authority that she also loves Aldi Mamia's Organic Baby Food Range!

This post is an entry for BritMums #MamiaDaysOut Linky Challenge, sponsored by Aldi Mamia.

All opinions are honest and my own. We were sent some Aldi Mamia family essentials in return for our honest opinion.

KidloLand: Free Printables

Sunday, 18 September 2016

Back in June, Dorothy and I reviewed an app called KidloLand. (you can find it here)

I loved how the fun songs helped with Dot's learning, so when I was asked if I would take part in a free colouring project, I was happy to :)

KidloLand have come up with an idea of continuing the learning and fun when the app isn't open, through colouring!

I really like that although Dot just sees it as colouring at the moment, she is getting used to seeing the letters and words, so eventually as she gets older and colours these pages in again, she will be able to recognise and read the words.

I also like that it's free, so I can print off as many copies as I want!!

To get your free copy, Click here to download :)

To find out more about KidloLand, head to the website:, on Facebook, or on Twitter.

The app can also be downloaded from these links:

5 Things That Make Me Smile- Week 1

Monday, 12 September 2016

So as you may know, I've ben struggling with all the different projects I take on, as well as the normal day to day family things. I let it get me down and it's taken me a while to find my feet again, but I'm getting there!
I have seen my Aunt write every day on Facebook about what she is thankful for and it got me thinking that something similar would be great in getting me back to writing. I can't write every day, but I will write the 5 things that have made me smile each week. :)

So, here goes!

1. Mikey started Year 8

Last Monday, Mikey went back to school and into Year 8. It was so lovely to see him so confident and, although not overly pleased for the holidays to be over, he was excited to start back, especially so he can practice his upcoming school production of Alice in Wonderland, where he will be playing the Cheshire Cat.
His enthusiasm is so contagious! I kind of wish I was going back to school with him!

2. Dorothy and the library

Every Wednesday afternoon our local library has Story Time. I used to take Mikey to it and last week I took Dot for the first time. She was unsure to begin with, and began helping herself to other library books and reading them, but she soon got in to it.
What really made me smile was that her older cousin and my nephew also goes, so it was great to see them interact with each other. Especially when he helped her with the nursery rhyme actions at the end. So sweet!

3. Usborne Books

I've briefly mentioned that I am now an Independent Usborne Organiser, and last week really made my smile. Although I've only been with Usborne since the end of June, I was named my team's "Star of the Month" due to my enthusiasm. I was shocked but I love my job, so it was the sprinkling on the top!

4. Mikey's Thoughtfulness

Every weekend, Mikey is up super early for cartoons and yesterday was no exception. What was a surprise though was that when we went downstairs, we found that he had forgone his cartoons to tidy the living room, fill the dishwasher and the washing machine. He even made both Mark and I a cup of tea. He is such a thoughtful little boy. (Or not so little!)

5. Dorothy

I often call Dorothy 'wilful'! She is such a cheeky monkey and wants to be so independent. She often makes me laugh, but last week she really did. Upon asking her a question, She replied "um.......I think so." Now that in itself probably doesn't seem that funny, but it was also accompanied by a finger on her chin and her looking away as if she was thinking about her answer!
She often copies people, but I don't know where she learnt it. Either way, it really made me smile!

So that is my first week of things that made me smile. It was great fun trying to think of only 5 and it made me laugh on more than one occasion while writing this!

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Taking a step back

Monday, 29 August 2016

Life has a way of getting so busy that sometimes you feel like you don't have time to take a breath. As a mum, that is par for the course, but I also have a tendancy of taking on extra projects.

I've been writing Dot Makes 4 for nearly 18 months, but I have recently become an Independent Usborne Organiser, my husband's unofficial secretary for his football coaching and for the local football club's supporters club.

The problem is not only that I throw myself fully into every project, but that I don't like to let anyone one down, so I keep taking on things and I don't like to say 'no'!

It's been a decision that I really had to think about as I love doing all these things, but if I didn't take a step back, I'll go potty (although if you ask anyone who knows me, I always have been!)

So, after discussing it with Mark, I've decided to take a bit of a step back from everything, for example, I am still my husband's secretary for his coaching and the supporters club, but I will no longer attend the football matches for a while.

But, don't panic! I will continue to write Dot Makes 4. I found myself trying to keep up with others, writing and tweeting and so on everyday, but I just can't. I will try to write once a week, but apologies if I don't!

Since making a decision, I finally feel like a weight has been lifted. I've now realised that saying 'no' and taking time for yourself isn't actually a bad thing.

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Our Summer Holiday in the Lake District

Tuesday, 16 August 2016

It's been a long time with no writing, so I thought I would update you all on our recent holiday to the Lake District.

We decided to keep it a secret from Mikey. I love surprising him, but it's so hard now he's older. He's always getting wise to what I'm planning!

The rest of our family knew we were going away and we packed the car up the night before. We even borrowed a fold up pushchair from my mum so we could get everything in the boot, rather than things around our feet!

We all piled into the car, persuading a suspicious Mikey that his Dad was working from home that day and we were just going for a day out. This little fib worked for about an hour, then the questions came. We managed to get away with it, until we had to stop at a services for a break!

The questions and lies continued for the next few hours until we reached a part of Hadrian's Wall. It was a strange feeling to be standing next to, and able to touch a piece of history.

We walked for a while, with both Mark and I checking the time every so often as we couldn't check in to our cottage until 4pm!

Finally, the time came to check in. Mark parked up and I took Mikey with me to unlock the door. It was only when I told him that we were staying for the week and showed him around that it clicked! He was so excited! Bless him :)

Our week was a really eventful one! We made sure we did something every day and that we did something that everyone wanted to do.

Some of the things we visited were; the Lake District Wildlife Park; the Roman Army Museum; Carlisle Castle, where we met Mary, Queen of Scots and Birdoswald, where Mikey learnt how to be a Roman soldier, and I learnt that although we say Centurion, it was actually pronounced Kenturion!

We also went over the border to visit Gretna Green. My favourite thing there was that after a while of watching a piper play, we asked him if we could take a photo. After a chat, we told him that it was Mikey's birthday. With that, he played Mikey "Happy Birthday"!

I really loved the South Tynesdale Railway, which is a small, volunteer-run railway line that runs from Alston to Lintley. It takes about 30 minutes to get from one end to the other and is great fun for little ones. It was the first time Dot was quiet throughout our holiday! She was watching out the window and taking it all in.
I almost volunteered to help, but then realised that I don't live there!

Overall, my favourite place was the Puzzling Place in Keswick centre. It's small, but full of Optical Illusions and a room that made Dorothy look like a giant! It's also very reasonably priced, which means it's perfect for popping in on a rainy day after shopping with the kids as well as part of a family fun day out.

It was a hectic, but amazing family holiday. There is so much to see and do in Cumbria and we will definitely be going back :)

Why I'm No Longer Comparing

Monday, 8 August 2016

As a parent, it's really easy to fall in to the trap of comparing your child with others but a lot harder to  get out of.

It is a trap that until recently, I was firmy stuck in, especially with Dot. She has a cousin who is only 6 1/2 weeks younger than her, so I find it really hard to not compare their development.

I have to say, Dot is a clever girl. At 20 months, she can already count to 10 and can understand and speak quite well. She can also be very independent and 'wilful'!

This past week, I've been trying to potty train Dot. She was showing some signs of readiness and had successfully used the potty a few times before so I thought we were good to go.

However, I was completely wrong. Dot had a lot of accidents, and after three days, she was really tearful and tired of using the potty. The forth day ended in tears and hugs (not just for Dot!)

I felt so bad for trying and putting her through it, but I definitely learnt something. I assumed that because Dot has reached other milestones earlier that she should do other things at an early age too. I am happy to admit that I was wrong.

Two days after the 'traumatic event', we have put the training on hold. Dot is back to her happy and wilful self and I am more relaxed as a mum. I am no longer going to compare Dot to others.

Dot will get there at her own pace and I am no longer going to push her. I am quite happy for her to lead me.

First Year of Secondary School is Over

Wednesday, 20 July 2016

Tomorrow, Mikey finishes his first year of Secondary School. I can't believe how quickly the time has gone!

I remember this time last year, where I was worried about so much as he left Primary School. His allergies, asthma, socialising, coping with the workload and everything in between. Little did I know at the time, Mikey would not only cope, but flourish.

In his first year, Mikey has already become more confident and more mature. Instead of me going into school to talk to the teacher about issues and answering questions, Mikey is now in charge of that. A lot of the time, he's happy I don't speak to the teachers. I'm too embarrassing! (If you've ever watched The Goldbergs, think Beverly!)
I still send the odd email, but I feel like I can actually take a step back, which I've never done before.

Mikey's teachers and school has been been amazing. Although his primary school did prepare him in his final year for what was to come, his independence has come on in leaps and bounds this year.

I am writing this while Mikey is on a school trip to London to see a West End show. He is one of 14 lucky children who have excelled in lessons and show commitment to Performing Arts. This is the boy who used to put up a fight when it came to doing homework and his ten minutes of reading at primary school!

Now before, I would be panicking about his allergies and all the other minute details of the trip. I would go in and speak to the teachers almost on a daily basis up until the trip, but I am okay about it. I not only trust the school, but I trust Mikey. He is in complete control of his medication and allergies.
Although I'll have my phone near me, I won't keep checking it like I used to. I know that he'll have a great time and that he's in good hands.

I think that this year has been a change for both of us. Not only is Mikey becoming a really lovely, confident young man (not that I'm biased in any way!), but I am learning, albeit still very slowly, to step back and it'll be okay.

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How can we help our children to learn about sharing?

Monday, 4 July 2016

As you may know, our family loves books! We love reading whenever we get a chance, although as a parent it's hard to find time (!), but we especially love reading to Dot. 

WILF Books is a really lovely new business where children can receive new books every month, but can also share their old and unused ones too!

This is a guest post from the lovely WILF Books:

Sharing is a super vital life skill, isn’t it? It teaches us how to co­operate with one another in our everyday lives. It teaches us about compromise, that if we give just a little to others, we can also get a little of what what we'd like too. It teaches us about negotiation, and how to cope with disappointment. It’s a fundamental human value that makes us who we are.

We all recognise its importance, but how can we help our children to learn about sharing?

Well, first and foremost, we think it starts with you. Monkey see, monkey do. Children learn so much just from watching what their parents do. You’re their role model, and when you model good sharing and *taking turns* in your family, it gives children a really great example to follow. You, as a parent, can always facilitate and encourage sharing in every day life, and here are five simple ways through which to do that:

  • Allow them to see it in others: Recognise it when your child sees another child sharing. There’s nothing more beautiful (and cute!) than watching children share and play nicely together, a little bit like grown­ups do. You can say things like: ‘Woah, wasn’t your friend sharing her toys really well, that was really lovely of her." 

  • Nurture it through play: It’s really fun to play little exercises with your child that involve turn­taking, sharing and inclusive participation. Talk your child step by step through the process of sharing, saying things like, ‘It’s your turn, then it’s my turn; you share the brown bricks with me, and I’ll share the pink bricks with you, I’ll play with Buzz whilst you play with Woody".   

  • Pile on the praise: When the proud moment comes, and you see your child attempting to take turns and share, be sure to lay on the praise, attention and all round good­will. This is super important, and with consistent practice and positive reinforcement, will become second nature in the minds of your little ones. For example, you could say things like "that was really lovely the way that you let Charlie play with your helicopter, great sharing!" 

  • Have ‘the talk’ (not that talk!): Talk to your child about sharing before she goes on playdates or trips with other friends. Reinforcing before, during and after playdates can really help build their mental map for sharing. For example, you could say, ‘Rahul is almost here and you’ll need to share some of your toys when he gets here. Let’s have a think about what he'd like to play with, shall we?’ You can also talk to your child about sharing before all possible interactions with other children, like nursery, pre­school or big school.

  • Allow them to ‘own’ their sharing: Create an environment and culture that encourages your child to want to share. WILF Books is develop on the value of sharing, delivering tailored and personalised children’s books addressed specifically to your child, along with the opportunity to share their own books with other children across the country. Take the time to sit with your child to discuss which books they’d like to share each month, in return for new books that they will love.

There’s sharing in every day life, and then there’s developing a sense of sharing amongst the wider society and community. In the globalised world within which we live, it’s more important than ever to be able to share beyond our own personal boundaries and connect with those from other cultures and backgrounds. By nurturing this connection, when a child reaches pre­school or school age where community, creativity and play are championed and they begin to interact with people of new cultures, they’ll be able to build more complex relationships with other children with the fundamental foundation of fairness at the heart. Imperative in today’s world. 

You can register your interest with WILF Books ahead of their upcoming launch, here.

Percy Jackson and Capture the Flag

Sunday, 3 July 2016

Mikey loves Percy Jackson. He's read the books and watched the films more times than I can count. I've also found wings attached to my converse trainers more times than I remember too!

I have to admit, I too love Percy Jackson. Not only are the books proper adventure stories (and good ones at that) , they have also encouraged Mikey, who was a reluctant reader, to read for fun while finding out more about Greek mythology.

When we were asked if we would try playing Capture the Flag based on the game played at Camp Half Boood, we couldn't resist!

I made some flags with some bamboo canes, crepe paper and sellotape and we were all set to go and play!

We normally play outdoor games at a local park and after looking for a suitable spot, we weren't disappointed! It was completely open and had slightly uneven ground, with obstacles in the way. Perfect for battle!

We played with smaller teams than were recommended, but it didn't stop the fun in any way.
To begin with, I was with my niece and Mikey was with his Dad. The babies watched laughing from the sideline with my injured sister!

We swapped teams every so often. Unfortunately I was not as good with tactics as Mikey was! No matter what team he was on, they won! At one point, I thought he'd wandered off, but he was hiding amongst the trees and sneaked all the way to the flag!

Even my niece beat me! 

He's also a really good runner and was so fast it became embarrassing to try running after him!

Despite the smaller teams, we had a blast! We have already arranged to play a large game of Capture the Flag with all the family for Mikey's birthday in a couple of weeks and we will make sure to update you on the battle! :)

You can find the new Percy Jackson book, The Hidden Oracle (The Trials of Apollo Book 1) here on Amazon.

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An Adventure With Zed Fox

Tuesday, 28 June 2016

Dot has taken over the blog today to write about her adventure with someone new!

The other day a new friend came to visit us. His name is Zed Fox.

He hid in a box so he would be a surprise!

As it was sunny outside, Mummy took us to 'The Spinney' which isn't too far away, but we couldn't walk there so we all went in the car.

When we got there, Zed Fox said that he couldn't walk because his legs are small, even smaller than mine! Luckily, he has some special straps on his back so I could carry him on my back.

 We ran through the trees and when my legs got tired, we stopped for a rest and a chat.

We didn't stop long though.  Soon we were off into the trees again, and then we had to climb over a wibbly, wobbly bridge. Zed Fox was a bit scared, but I went slowly and held on tight so we didn't fall. I didn't even ask for Mummy's help!

After the scary bridge, we went to have a look at the big trees. We had to go up a big path to reach a big hut to look at the view. We looked really, really far.

After our long walk, we stopped for a snack and a drink. Then Zed Fox had a surprise for us. He was hiding a blanket in his back!

Silly Mummy forgot to pack a drink or a snack for Zed Fox, but I shared mine with him so he wasn't left out.

After our snack, it was time to go home. I was sad, but Mummy said it was okay because Zed Fox was coming home with us to stay!

I love Zed Fox!

Disclaimer: Zed Fox came to stay in return for taking him on a great adventure!

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